The very sexy actor, Lance Gross, took to Vibe Magazine to speak on his views on relationships and how he feels women aren’t willing to build relationships with their mate like in the old days. He speaks on much more…
I definitely see a difference in generations and I’ve talked about it before because with my failed engagement I kind of lost hope for a minute. It took a while but I’m just really getting over that but it has something to do with the generation. We’re raised differently as far as not by our parents but just the times that we’re growing up in. It’s all about flash and what you can do for me. It’s not about building together anymore. Usually if you ask a woman what she wants in a man the first thing is he’s gotta have a good job, he’s gotta have his own car, he has to be able to take care of me, it’s not about building together anymore. What if he was dead broke and you were dead broke but you guys built an empire together. It’s just different. We have different morals now.
He also talks about being picked on in school and what he looks for in women…
On being picked on in school
[I was picked on] because I was dark-skinned, my last name, I always used to smile a lot, stuff like that. Really, the same things that they picked on me for, it kind of evolved into something that makes me popular.
On what he is looking for in a women
I just like a woman that could reinvent herself, like just have the confidence to try different things whether it be her style or it’s weird, I feel like I have to be obsessed with the woman for it to work. I want to be obsessed with my girl because if it’s like that then we gonna be aight. And she’s gotta be intelligent, be able to hold a good conversation not just what did you do today. I want to talk about politics, I want to talk about what’s going on in the world.
I understand what he’s saying about building relationships. Most people would rather have it all right then and there than to work for it with their mate. Good stuff!!!
What do you think about what Lance had to say???